Clues of teen alcohol abuse (1119)

Parents often underestimate the seriousness of underage drinking in their communities. Or they may tell themselves that while other teens are drinking, their own child has somehow managed to steer clear of the problem.

It's important to remember that just about any teenager can develop problems with alcohol or other drugs. That's why parents can't afford to ignore evidence that a son or daughter may be in trouble. Parents who know their teens' personality traits, school and extra-curricular activities, habits, interests, and abilities can more readily notice changes in behavior.

There are a number of "red flags" that could indicate a child is using alcohol or other drugs. Keep in mind that many of the behaviors on the following lists are also evidence a child is simply going through normal adolescent growing pains. In general, parents who remain alert to what's going on in their teenagers' lives are in a better position to notice when any of the following changes could be an indication of trouble.

Social changes:

-Are regular friends being replaced by new friends your teen doesn't want you to meet?

-Has your teen suddenly lost interest in things that used to be important to her?

-Does your teen try to avoid telling you where he is going and with whom?

School changes:

-Is the quality of her work slipping?

-Have teachers noticed behavior problems in class?

-Has he been repeatedly absent or tardy?

Personality changes:

-Has she become extremely negative or defensive?

-Is your teen having a harder time controlling his temper?

Family Relationships:

-Is your teen repeatedly defying rules that she had previously been following?

-Has he withdrawn from the rest of the family?

-Do you suspect your teen may be taking money from other family members?

Physical Changes:

-Have you noticed a difference in her grooming or personality?

-Does she look "under the influence?"

-Does he smell like alcohol?

Seeking outside help is not a sign of weakness on your part. Nor is it an indication you are at fault. Making good use of your community's resources for dealing with these issues is a sign you're doing the right thing as a parent. Getting the help your teen needs is one of the best things you can do for her. If you suspect you need help, contact:

- Your teen's school

- A local mental health agency

- The clergy of a local church

- Your physician

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